I may have been a bit harsh on Rugby Blue. It wasn’t the fact that he wanted anal sex that was so outrageous. I like a man who is adventurous and knows what he wants and is willing to ask for it. I also know what I want though, and that is most definitely not lube-free bum sex. (Sidebar if you are in the market for lube I highly recommend this one.)

Anyway, fair play to Rugby Blue for trying. The fact that he wanted to do it without a condom was the bigger issue.

Appropriately, the original debut of this blog coincided with Contraceptive Awareness Week, or “let’s not have babies or get chlamydia” week, as I interpreted it. If you are going to have sex with multiple partners it should be a given that you use condoms.

Pretty obvious you would think, but the amount of men I’ve gone home with who don’t have condoms at hand is frankly appalling. Which is why I have my own. Also, since most guys probably pick up condoms they get for free from their college, having your own also ensures you have the kind that feel the best – which is the ultimate goal of the night anyways: max pleasure. Luckily Durex has condoms called “Max Pleasure,” but personally I prefer the “Feather Lite” ones. I’d love to stay and chat more about STIs, but I have a big night ahead of me and must go shopping for something sexy. I’m thinking strapless dress and a pack of Feather Lites.